Monday, December 6, 2010
Monday's... And 'Her'
What goes on, internetians? Today I had Karate (YIPEE!). We fought a bit and it was awesome. And today, as I was practising my drums, my stick broke as I was drumming (any drummers out there? Comment about your abilities). So, today at school, we didn't do anything much, except my song, sung aucapella, by myself, infront of everyone. So, as I sung it, i was shaking like a massage chair. But the girl who I like said, when we got back to the classroom (i sang in the band room) 'You were shaking alot. It almost looked like you were going to fall; I was almost ready to catch you.' YEAH! I really like her. Like, LOVE her. I stare at her all class, her hair flowing over her shoulders, golden like a waterfall when it's struck by the setting sun (I'm a bit of a poet). I've actually written songs for her, and sung them to the class, making sure that she's the first to find out about them, and she has no idea they were for her. She keeps asking me who they were for, and i just can't muster up the courage to tell her who they were for. I love hearing her laugh and seeing her smile; it makes me happy and feel good inside. If i could ask her out, and do it in a not-lame way, i would feel better about myself, even if she sais 'no' (but i hope she sais 'yes'). I like her so much and I'm not sure if it was smart or dumb to not say anything about her 'i was ready to catch you' comment to her. So, if by some freak of nature someone's reading this, if you have any advise for me, any at ALL, could you please, please comment it for me? And only if that advise is about my girl trouble. So, see you later internetonians, and have a good nights dream. You are dismissed.
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Mindmaze, I'm not sure how old you are or what race, I know your a young guy, so I want to say that I'm touched by your posts. They are very open and sharing, and I think fascinating.
ReplyDeleteDid you ever get together with her?
My advice is to be patient and just hang around her a lot and be her good friend, she will come around and maybe invite you to "hang out with her and her friends or at her house", you really want to get invited to her house, so you guys can hang out alone together, the more time you spend together with her, the more likely you are to get an idea of if she actually likes you, if she just wants to be friends then you can move on, unless she has a boyfriend, then she may only be holding you off to be friends because she has a boyfriend already, but you may still have a chance with her if even she has a boyfriend, just stay friends with her and call her once a week on the telephone. If you ever see or hear her crying because of something, don't back off and give her space, comfort her as a boyfriend would, she will come to care for you through experiences like that and because of your loyalty to her even when she is not your girlfriend yet. Women always remember loyalty, we cherish it, so if you can just stick it out and stay by her side through thick and thin,(which is very hard nowadays where relationships are short and people give up on them too easily) eventually you'll have your moment when she's ready to be with you. It will be so much more special for you and her, once she realizes her love for you and comes to you willingly. Hope this helps, also remember wearing a woman down by pestering her is not the same thing as being by her side through her many challenges of being a woman(sometimes the best thing you can do is just be there, not saying anything but just being there), you'll come to know her better too, just by spending more time with her, you may even come to find out she is not the woman for you. That is the pay off from patience and loyalty, you may even learn more about what you want in a woman as well as learning what women want in a man too. You have many experiences ahead of you still.
I have no doubt, from reading your posts, that you would make a very loving and kind boyfriend and spouse. Remember to always be forgiving, people aren't perfect, this includes women.